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Ya better put a ring on it

Well, it has been awhile, I know.  The holidays have come and gone and hopefully it was quiet and relaxing for you all.  Garrison and I decided to exchanged rings this holiday as a symbol of our commitment to each other, and lately I’ve been thinking a lot about rings.  The kind we put on our fingers and the various ones put on our cocks.  Yes, COCK rings – or as I like to call them JEWELRY.

They come in many shapes and materials, all with the same idea and function, mostly, but I’ll get to the mostly part in a moment.  The idea here being to constrict and localize the blood flow to a specific area, our junk, making it more firm and prolonging our erections. Generally cock rings are worn for sex although some men like to wear them under clothing to make their cocks look bigger or more aroused.  I’ve tried out and worn many different types: rubber (found in the plumbing section of any hardware store), silicone (my personal fav as they stretch and give – easy put on, which is very important, and easy to get off even if you are still very erect and have to take a piss), leather, leather with studs (kind of like a pit bull collar), metal (like aluminum, steel, even platinum alloys) and the new types of cock rings (here being the “mostly” part).

These new types are both elegant in their form and function, made to be seen and used, like for example worn as you are strolling around Dore Alley showing off your mantool or your favorite backroom.  They become the “BLING” to draw attention to your piece, a modern day codpiece.  Some are even weighted, to give your tool more heft.  They can be found online at Mr. S in SF, the Castro for the silicone types which are actually harder to find, or for those on a budget Home Depot for under a dollar.

I’ve been using cock rings for years, since the late 70′s; if any of you are like me and enjoy a long distance-type marathon instead of a quick sprint, a good cock ring becomes an essential part of your tool box.  Dammit, somebody better put a ring on it!!!!

None, but people of strong passion are capable of rising to greatness.

The 17th Century writer Comte de Mirabeau captures exactly what I’ve been thinking about for today’s post, AND what I usually get asked most by newcomers to the SE class. I often reply YES!!! This is what the class is all about, teaching men to hold a charge in their bodies, to increase the amount of energy flowing to all of the areas, including the pelvis and our boners.

Our expressions of eroticism were never meant to hidden, only celebrated, enjoyed, and yes, even treasured. So the next time you feel reticent to show your arousal in class, remember the words of Comte de Mirabeau and get passionate. For me, the “greatness” Mirabeau was writing about deserves no less than a ticker tape parade.

In Search of the Magic Root – aren’t we all????

Yes, folks, it is Maca – root of the Incas. A friend recommended it to me, claiming it had miraculous erection potential so I tried it – hey, I’ll try anything! Wait, what? It looks like a freaking onion or something (actually it is in the radish family if you must know). When I did some investigating I focused on the word adaptogen (as in Ginseng) meaning that is an overall body toner, helping to bring into balance all of the body’s systems, most notably the endocrine system.

What I felt when taking it was more energy, but not the speedy energy you get from Redbull or most ginseng caps. Also I noticed that my head felt clearer, especially when in session with clients. I even slept better, not getting up in the middle of the night to pee at all. Sweet!

You can find it at any health food store, even Whole Foods. See what you think and get back to me. My buddy says you’ll feel hornier (is that even a word?), thinking about sex more. Sounds good to me………….