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Open Wide Part 2

Some of you know that I underwent septal reconstruction surgery for a deviated septum a few weeks ago.  What that means is that both nasal passages were constricted, so my breathing was challenging at best.  This is something I’ve been dealing with my whole life – and really didn’t think a lot about it, it was just the way things were.  In the recuperative process I’ve spoken with several men who have had the same surgery – all claim that my oral skills will change dramatically.

Yes, I meaning giving head!!!  I’ve always enjoyed the process and practice of giving good blow job however it was always about either keeping my strokes short or holding my breath for long periods, both of which I’ve mastered (really, ask anyone).  Yet it took some energy to do this, was less of a flow.  Now that will all change.  I am so excited about this prospect and look forward to many hours of sucking and lingual tickling.

So if any of you are challenged by head (the giving not the getting), have to blow your nose after each blowjob and are holding your breath on a regular basis when polishing the knob, think about this procedure.  The men of America need you!!!!!!

Suck, Don’t Blow……….

I’ve always been fascinated by jobs, especially the jobs we call “blow.”  We are not really blowing anything.  It’s all about opening wide – and it can be quite a job, particularly when faced with a huge monster rearing its head.  I always try to do my best, though.  That is precisely whey they call it practice.  I know some who should get a lifetime achievement award……..from this relentless soul I picked up the latest entry into the Tips Tricks and Techniques from the Edge.

The fascination, for me, is equally as exciting whether I am  standing with my hands planted on  a man’s ears, shoving my tool down their throat, or on my knees with both hands behind my back using my inner throat muscles to massage my man’s cock.  It’s an oral thing, to be filled up, satiated, complete – and don’t forget the sublime rapture (as Charles Nelson calls it in both his books Panthers in the Skins of Men and The Boy Who Picked the Bullets Up) of a big ol explosive load in your mouth or the sweet musky juices dripping down your throat.  Ahhhh.

So, here is an excellent way to turn your man into a mewling puppy.  I learned this technique back in the 70′s from a master cock sucker, a guy that really relished his avocation and it can be done with things you already have around the house.  This trick works best if your man is standing, but can be done in any position, as you want his nut sack to hang down low.  Warming them beforehand by blowing on them might be a good way to begin.  First, use some Vaseline or heavy ointment style lip goo and coat your lips with a thick layer – this makes the sliding back and forth smooth and effortless.  Next, take some corn starch in your left hand (if you’re right handed) and slowly begin lightly massaging the balls of your man.  I mean very lightly!  The combined sensations will drive your man into a frenzy.  Who knows you might even get the job.

Open Wide Baby!

So, more Tips Tricks and Techniques from the Edge.  This is one of my most favorite tricks to stimulate my partners, and especially when used with the “tasting” technique of a few posts back, can make your man wild.  Really the trick to being the “best” at head is in variation, and of course an open throat (more on that later….).  Try this technique: Go down on your favorite man tool all the way so that your lips are brushing up against his bush (while carefully wrapping your lips around your exposed teeth to protect the tender skin there), then open your mouth all the way so that your lips, tongue and the roof of your mouth are barely touching his piece and begin slow deep breathing.  The sensation of cool air and your hot mouth will likely drive your slab o man meat crazy with passion.

Let go of my ears – I know what I’m doing????

One SE student proudly wears a T shirt to class with the title of this post on it sometimes, and yes, admittedly, as a peter puffer he is good at what he does (really good, damn!), but it had me thinking about how men give head. I’ve found that, more often than not, men practice (and I mean practice literally here) zipper sex in the way that they fuck – by rote, as in something they are used to.
I can be very verbal in play sessions, and really enjoy both speaking and hearing it in a session. I don’t mean the “oh, Daddy” kind but more the “yes, this is how I like it” and “more of that right there,” or even “try this.” My comments are sexualized instructions on how to suck my cock plain and simple. I feel this sets me apart as a good sexual communicator in bed. Yes, yes, yes, you might be saying, all that is well and good, but here’s kicker.
A lot of men merely listen for a moment and then go right back to what they usually do when giving a piston job – they go into their rote patterns of sucking cock. Guys – cock-sucking is an art form and if a man is willing to tell you how to please him, fuck. Just do it. I mean really listen, not just to the words, but even to how they are responding to what you are doing – the moans will give you a clue as to what to do more of and what to stop doing. For me, silence is not good (silence=bad) – this is probably the time when they are going into their heads and fantasizing/dissociating from the present moment. Being verbal really helps you and your partner stay present.
Every man is built differently and is sensitive in different parts of their cock. Personally I like to get hard in my partner’s mouth, slowly, so I prefer a “tasting” method.
DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS HERE SO PAY ATTENTION guys: Deep throat your partner and stay there without any movement, allowing your man to feel your breath on his pubes. this might even be the time to hum a few bars of your favorite aria or pop tune. Seriously. You can even get your buddy to join in on the refrain.
After the 4th or 5th verse, next try swallowing slowly while keeping your tongue extended toward the base. What this does is tighten your throat muscles around his meat and pull it down. After all, this is the action of the throat muscles, to pull food down your gullet. My oh my, this feels very good. In addition, the oxytocin in his pre-cum will make your throat feel good also, further encouraging it to contract.
So there ya go, all you blow monkeys out there.
And for you ‘heady guys” here is some more reading, an excerpt by Erobinteca:

I undid your belt buckle, popped the buttons of your faded jeans one at a time. Pulled them down to your ankles. Saw your large cock spring free in the dim light. You hopped onto the drafting table, sat with legs dangling, your fingers in my short hair.

You instructed me. With gentle words taught me how to use my tongue on your glans, my lips on your shaft. With you I learned pressure, suction, tempo. How to use my teeth, lightly, teasingly.
You whispered a request to me – suck your balls. Fleshy plums, I drew them into the cave of my mouth, played my tongue over them. With this you moaned for me, leaked a drop of fluid. Once again, my lips met the head of your cock, tasted the sweet, sour, salty promise of a lesson well-learned….

What this all cums down to guys is bringing mindfulness to your cock-sucking, a heightened level of awareness to all you jaw queens and throat monsters out there.
Never stop practicing!!